In a recent Family Week seminar, one of our most outstanding group counselors, Dr.Jerry Brown asked the question, “You wouldn’t argue with a hormone right? Then why would you bother arguing with an addict?”

Dr. Brown went on to say that he doesn’t argue with his wife when either of them are tired, hungry, sick or PMS ing. Being tired, hungry and sick affect serotonin, cortisol and other brain chemicals which in turn influences our reactions to be dramatic, inattentive or uninterested. Equally Dr.Brown noted that addicts can not be argued with when they are under the influence of drugs and alcohol. He encouraged families to carefully consider when they choose to have conversations with their loved ones. Healthy choices like choosing not to have a conversation that could be potentially hurtful are wise. Being able to vocally say this to your loved one is equally as important.